Consciously or Subconsciously, are you putting that person in a position to fail you??? Do you value the person and relationship? Are you afraid it won’t work anyway, so you sabotage to meet your expectation? To really dig in here, talk with a licensed trained therapist. They will help you get to your specific root cause and develop a plan on engaging your relationship in a healthy, emotionally mature way. ❤️Thank you for this conversation @wayupwithyee and @aliciakeys